I think some of it is false humility - when all that's wanted is an ego-biscuit. ++

Tell me I'm really very great. The other part is worse. Constant apology for things we can't fix or don't want to fix is a way to keep abuse from continuing to occur. Except it doesn't. Accepting blame for things that are not our problems just invites our abusers to insist that we accept more and more blame for more and more things that we do not control. Can you tell I took a Psychology course a long time ago? I'll shut up now.

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